On this week’s episode of The Baggage Reclaim Classes, I had the pleasure of a complete however intensive dialog with the fantastic Lindsay C. Gibson, writer of Grownup Youngsters of Emotionally Immature Dad and mom (2015, New Harbinger). We talk about what emotional immaturity means, the varieties of emotionally immature guardian (EIP), emotional loneliness, why an emotionally immature guardian seems capable of do issues with one other little one or embody traits and behavior that they don’t with us, the impression of their behaviour, parenting as an grownup little one of an EIP, estrangement, and a lot extra.
IN THIS EPISODE…
01:21 Private connection to the e book
02:52 Interview with Dr. Lindsay C. Gibson
04:47 Understanding emotional immaturity
06:11 The impression of emotional immaturity on relationships
11:59 The position of emotional loneliness
17:58 The cycle of emotional immaturity
23:57 Reflections on development
45:13 Kinds of emotionally immature dad and mom (EIPs)
01:02:30 Favouritism and superficial relationships of emotionally immature dad and mom
01:04:10 How EIPs educate concern of feelings
01:06:55 Stoicism and emotional regulation
01:09:00 Reparenting and emotional expression
01:11:44 Internalisers vs. Externalisers
01:17:42 Individuals pleasing as a ‘superpower’
01:24:30 Parenting with emotional consciousness
01:29:22 The ability of apology and restore in parenting
01:34:11 Breaking apart with an emotionally immature guardian
01:36:33 Sustaining self-connection in parent-child relationships
04:18 Addressing childhood trauma and emotional baggage
LINKS MENTIONED AND RECOMMENDED RESOURCES
- Grownup Youngsters of Emotionally Immature Dad and mom: by Lindsay C. Gibson
- New Yr, New No, and Recognising the Darkish Facet of Individuals Pleasing (ep. 276)
- It’s Not That You’re Not ‘Good Sufficient’ — You’re Over-Accountable (ep. 158)
- Giving Up The Function of Being Over-Accountable
- Cease The ASSumptions: 28 Dodgy Causes Individuals Give For Selecting Somebody For A Relationship
- Roles – “I Need To Break Free” (ep. 128)
- Fake empathy and backdated empathy: When it feels such as you’ve been ‘jacked’
- Dad and mom Believing They ‘Had It Worse’ Makes Empathy Tough for Them
- The Energy of Discord: Why the Ups and Downs of Relationships Are the Secret to Constructing Intimacy, Resilience, and Belief by Ed Tronick and Claudia M. Gold
- Sorry Appears To Be The Hardest Phrase (ep. 105)
- Forgiving Me For Abandonment
- My e book The Pleasure of Saying No
- The Age of Obedience – However Will You Get Into Bother, Although? (ep. 242)
- Let’s Speak About Household Estrangement (ep. 204)
- I Broke Up with My Mom
- Decluttering Exes On Your Cellphone, Household Secrets and techniques, No Plus-One? (ep. 36)
- Extra Concepts Than Time, How To Keep away from Drama With That Household Member, Trusting Your self (ep. 65)
- Future Faking, Choices With Difficult Household Members, Yikes! One other Favour! (ep.10)
- Cease shaming you for having wants
- Let’s Speak About Emotional Wants (ep. 149)
- You ARE Allowed to Have Boundaries With Household
- Some Dad and mom Couldn’t Be Who We Wanted, and We Have to Forgive Ourselves
- About Concern of Abandonment and Why We Decrease Our Requirements
- Battle Spotlights The Fact of Our Extra Fragile Relationships (ep. 239)
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